Friday, October 10, 2014

Hurting Pastors Need Our Prayers


Hurting Pastors Need Our Prayers

By Larry Barker
Discouraged and LonelyIn 2 Cor. 11:28-30, Paul said, “Beside those things that are without, that which cometh upon me daily, the care of all the churches. Who is weak, and I am not weak? Who is offended, and I burn not? If I must needs glory, I will glory of the things which concern mine infirmities.” Tom Rainer, President of Lifeway, recently shared a survey given to pastors about two primary sources of personal struggle in the ministry. It proves that the challenges of the pastorate today are real and need to be admitted so that they might be addressed and resolved.  “Not all the news about pastors is discouraging. Pastors feel privileged to be called to their places of ministry. They have a deep love for those they shepherd. Most of them could not conceive of doing anything else. But please hear me: Many pastors are hurting.
The Discouragement Factor: One of the key symptoms of the pain experienced by pastors is discouragement. Over one-half (55%) of pastors are presently discouraged. I suspect that if we surveyed pastors over just a few months, we would find that almost all of them experience deep discouragement.  Some interesting facts we discovered in our study:
  • There was no pattern of discouragement related to the geographical location of the church.
  • There was no pattern of discouragement related to the size of the church.
  • There was no pattern of discouragement related to the educational level of the pastor.
  • There was a significant pattern of discouragement related to the age of the pastor. The younger the pastor, the more likely he was to be discouraged.
The Loneliness Factor: Most pastors experience intense loneliness at times. When we conducted our survey, over one-half again (coincidentally the same number, 55%, as noted above) said they were lonely. Again remember that this survey was for a specific point in time. Which pastors experience the greatest amount of loneliness? Our study noted some discernible patterns:
  • There was no pattern of loneliness related to the geographical location of the church.
  • Younger pastors were more likely to be lonely than older pastors.
  • The larger the church, the greater the likelihood that the pastor was experiencing loneliness.
  • The greater the education level of the pastor, the more likely he is to be lonely.
Why the Pervasive Discouragement and Loneliness?” Rainer in an earlier blog offered the following as reasons pastors are struggling today and some are experiencing depression: spiritual warfare, unrealistic expectations, greater platforms for critics, failure to take time away from the church or place of ministry, workaholism, marriage and family problems, neglecting his family as he cares for the larger church family, financial strains, the problem of comparison.  Rainer went on to say, “This one thing I do know. Pastors need our prayers more than ever. They need our support and encouragement. I am committed to pray for my pastor every day, even if it’s only for a minute or so. Will you do the same? Our pastors pour out their lives for us daily. What can you do to help our pastors?”
Allow me to recommend to you, Leading on Empty by Wayne Cordeiro.
Larry Barker

Larry Barker

Larry Barker serves as Director of North American Missions for the Baptist Missionary Association of America. He has a passion to see hundreds of BMAA churches planted throughout the USA and Canada, and has also served as a missionary to Romania. You can connect with him on Facebook or

Pastors Are Hurting, Discourage, Lonely


Pastors Are Hurting, Discourage, Lonely

By Thom S. Rainer
Lonely
Photo by VinothChandar.
Not all the news about pastors is discouraging. Pastors feel privileged to be called to their places of ministry. They have a deep love for those they shepherd. Most of them could not conceive of doing anything else.
But please hear me: Many pastors are hurting.
LifeWay Research conducted a national survey of Protestant pastors. Among the questions they asked were two related to the hurts I noted above.
The Discouragement Factor
One of the key symptoms of the pain experienced by pastors is discouragement. Over one-half (55%) of pastors are presently discouraged. I suspect that if we surveyed pastors over just a few months, we would find that almost all of them experience deep discouragement.
Some interesting facts we discovered in our study:
  • There was no pattern of discouragement related to the geographical location of the church.
  • There was no pattern of discouragement related to the size of the church.
  • There was no pattern of discouragement related to the educational level of the pastor.
  • There was a significant pattern of discouragement related to the age of the pastor. The younger the pastor, the more likely he was to be discouraged.
The Loneliness Factor
Most pastors experience intense loneliness at times. When we conducted our survey, over one-half again (coincidentally the same number, 55%, as noted above) said they were lonely. Again remember that this survey was for a specific point in time.
Which pastors experience the greatest amount of loneliness? Our study noted some discernible patterns:
  • There was no pattern of loneliness related to the geographical location of the church.
  • Younger pastors were more likely to be lonely than older pastors.
  • The larger the church, the greater the likelihood that the pastor was experiencing loneliness.
  • The greater the education level of the pastor, the more likely he is to be lonely.
Why the Pervasive Discouragement and Loneliness?
Why are so many pastors struggling today? In an earlier article I wrote on pastoral depression, I noted the following possible reasons:
  • Spiritual warfare. The Enemy does not want God’s servants to be effective in ministry. He will do whatever it takes to hurt ministers and their ministries.
  • Unrealistic expectations. The expectations and demands upon a pastor are enormous. They are unrealistic. But if one person’s expectations are not met, that person can quickly let the pastor know that he is a failure.
  • Greater platforms for critics. In “the good old days,” a critic was typically limited to telephone, mail, and in-person meetings to criticize a minister. Today the critics have the visible and pervasive platforms of email, blogs, and social media such as Facebook and Twitter.
  • Failure to take time away from the church or place of ministry. Workaholism leads to burnout. Burnout leads to depression.
  • Marriage and family problems. Too often the pastor neglects his family as he cares for the larger church family.
  • Financial strains. Many pastors simply do not have sufficient income from the churches they serve. That financial stress can lead to depression. Some pastors do not know how to manage the money they do have, leading to further financial strain.
  • The problem of comparison. Every pastor will always know of a church that is larger and more effective. Every pastor will always know of another pastor who seems more successful. The comparison game can be debilitating to some pastors.
This one thing I do know. Pastors need our prayers more than ever. They need our support and encouragement. I am committed to pray for my pastor every day, even if it’s only for a minute or so. Will you do the same? Our pastors pour out their lives for us daily. What can you do to help our pastors?
LifeWay Research contacted 1,000 Protestant pastors across the United States by telephone. The calling list was randomly drawn from a list of all Protestant churches. Up to six calls were made to reach each sampled phone number. Each interview was conducted with the senior or solo pastor or equivalent position. Responses were weighted to reflect geographical distribution of Protestant churches. The sample provides 95% confidence that the sampling error does not exceed +/- 3.2%. Margins of error are higher for sub-groups.
Pastor to Pastor is the Saturday blog series at ThomRainer.com. Pastors and staff, if we can help in any way, contact Steve Drake, our director of pastoral relations, at Steve.Drake@LifeWay.com. We also welcome contacts from laypersons in churches asking questions about pastors, churches, or the pastor search process.

Thom S. Rainer

Thom S. Rainer is president of LifeWay Christian Resources. This column first appeared at ThomRainer.com.

Autopsy of a Burned Out Pastor: 13 Lessons


Autopsy of a Burned Out Pastor: 13 Lessons

By Thom S. Rainer
Exhausted
Perhaps the autopsy metaphor is not the best choice. After all, the person is not deceased. But the pastor who is burned out feels like life is draining out. Unfortunately, I have spoken with too many pastors for whom burnout is a reality or a near reality.
What lessons can we learn from those pastors who burned out? Allow me to share 13 lessons I have learned from those who have met this fate. They are in no particular order.
  1. The pastor would not say “no” to requests for time. Being a short-term people pleaser became a longer-term problem.
  2. The pastor had no effective way to deal with critics. I plan to deal with this issue more in the future. What types of systems do effective leaders put in place to deal with criticisms so they respond when necessary, but don’t deplete their emotional reservoirs?
  3. The pastor served a dysfunctional church. Any pastor who leads a church that remains dysfunctional over a long period of time is likely headed toward burnout.
  4. The pastor did little or no physical exercise. I understand this dilemma, because I have been there in the recent past.
  5. The pastor did not have daily Bible time. I continue to be amazed, but not surprised, how this discipline affects our spiritual health, our emotional health, and our leadership ability.
  6. The pastor’s family was neglected. “If anyone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of God’s church?” (1 Timothy 3:5, HCSB).
  7. The pastor rarely took a day off. No break in the routine and demands of pastoring is a path for burnout.
  8. The pastor rarely took a vacation. Again, the issues are similar to the failure to take a day off.
  9. The pastor never took a sabbatical. After several years of the intense demands of serving a church, a sabbatical of a few weeks is critical to the emotional, spiritual, and physical health of a pastor.
  10. The pastor never learned effective relational and leadership skills. When that is the case, conflict and weak vocational performance are inevitable. That, in turn, leads to burnout.
  11. The pastor was negative and argumentative. Negativity and an argumentative spirit drain a pastor. That negativity can be expressed in conversations, sermons, blogs, or any communication venue. Argumentative pastors are among the first to experience burnout.
  12. The pastor was not a continuous learner. Pastors who fail to learn continuously are not nearly as energized as those who do. Again, this disposition can lead to burnout.
  13. The pastor was not paid fairly. Financial stress can lead to burnout quickly. I will address this issue again in my next post.
Many pastors are leaving ministry because they have experienced burnout. Many others are just on the edge of burnout. Pastors need our continuous support and prayers. And they themselves need to avoid the thirteen issues noted here.
photo credit: Pragmagraphr
This article was originally published at ThomRainer.com on June 23, 2014. Thom S. Rainer serves as president and CEO of LifeWay Christian Resources. Among his greatest joys are his family: his wife Nellie Jo; three sons, Sam,  Art, and Jess; and seven grandchildren. Dr. Rainer can be found on Twitter @ThomRainer and at facebook.com/Thom.S.Rainer.

Thom S. Rainer

Thom S. Rainer is president of LifeWay Christian Resources. This column first appeared at ThomRainer.com.

7 Keys to Preventing Pastoral Burnout

7 Keys to Preventing Pastoral Burnout

By Thom S. Rainer
BurnoutI have the incredible opportunity to interact with pastors regularly. In recent conversations, I have asked two questions. First, have you ever experienced burnout in your ministry? Second, what do you do to prevent pastoral burnout?
Interestingly, every pastor with whom I spoke had experienced some level of burnout. So they spoke from the voice of experience when they shared with me what they do to prevent burnout. I aggregated their responses to seven keys to preventing pastoral burnout, not in any particular order or priority.
1. Remember your call. Ministry can be tough and dirty. It can be frustrating and confusing. But if we remember Who called us and Who sustains us, we are able to persevere. We understand we are not doing ministry in our own power.
2. Pray for your critics. Criticism is one of the most frequently mentioned causes of burnout. Pastors on the other side of burnout told me they have learned to pray for their critics almost every day. It has given the pastors a fresh perspective. A few pastors even noted significant change in their critics shortly after they started praying for them.
3. Wait a day before responding to critics. Somewhat related to number two above, some pastors shared that ministry began to take its toll when they engaged their critics negatively in writing, in person or by phone. Now these pastors wait a full day before responding, and they are amazed at how differently their responses take shape.
4. Be intentional about downtime. Pastors need it. Their families need it. Every week. Don’t skip vacations. Go on occasional retreats. Don’t lose your family by trying to save your church.
5. Find a friend to share your burden. For some pastors, it was another pastor. For others, it was a retired pastor. Some mentioned that key confidants in the church had become their best friends. Pastors need someone they trust to whom they can unload their burdens.
6. Do not neglect your prayer life. Pastors told me repeatedly that, as their prayer life waned, their burnout increased. For them, prayer was first an ongoing conversation with God, but it was also a time for spiritual refueling.
7. Do not neglect your time in the Word. We heard similar stories from pastors who began neglecting their time in the Bible. As that time waned, burnout increased. All the pastors noted that time in the Word was time beyond sermon preparation. It was a time of personal devotion and study.
Pastors are burning out every day. Many are leaving the ministry as a result. It is a real and immediate problem with many pastors and many churches.

Thom S. Rainer

Thom S. Rainer is president of LifeWay Christian Resources. This column first appeared at ThomRainer.com.


Monday, May 19, 2014

Set Apart to Serve a Different Master

Set Apart to Serve a Different Master


May 08, 2014
Bible college graduates have planted hundreds of churches in villages throughout Nepal. This congregation in a Mondol community is grateful to have their own church building.
Shakya’s* parents were devastated when the son they had groomed to become a Buddhist monk told them he had other plans.
“Something wonderful has happened,” the 14-year-old Nepali announced. “I have become a follower of Jesus.”
At first the teen’s father stared at him, trying to make sense of this startling revelation.
“You speak foolishness. Don’t you know this will bring shame to us?” his father asked, genuinely hurt.
Shakya breathed a silent prayer for the right words. Fighting back tears, he told his parents how much he loved them and that he wanted them to know the Savior too.
Finally Shakya’s father could no longer tolerate what he viewed as his son’s insolence and deliberate disrespect toward the family. He pushed the boy against the wall and struck him repeatedly. Shakya’s mother pleaded for him to stop, but he ordered her and the other children standing nearby to go outside.
When the beating was over, Shakya’s face was bloodied and both of his hands were broken.
The young man knew there was only one place where he could turn for help and not face rejection—the believer who had led him to Christ. Concerned for Shakya’s safety, that believer brought him to Kathmandu and introduced him to a Christian couple who operated a children’s home and a Bible college.
That meeting ultimately plotted a new course for Shakya’s life—and dozens of others whose lives he has touched.
Shakya comes from the Newar (Newa) ethnic group. Because they are in the clan of priests, by tradition Shakya’s family expected their second eldest son to eventually commit to service in a temple.
But Shakya received a different calling when Jesus Christ—not Buddha—became his Teacher and Master.
After arriving in the capital city, the Christian couple welcomed him like a son and provided for his material and emotional needs. They encouraged him to finish high school and pursue God’s purposes for his life.
Shakya thrived in this nurturing environment. the young man desired to further his education and go into full-time Christian service, so he enrolled in the couple’s Bible college.
During the three-year program, Shakya immersed himself in church administration classes, evangelism training, and Biblical studies. He also completed his internship at a church. Upon graduation, he received an assignment to serve at a church in Kathmandu. Those five years provided a great training ground for him, as he worked with children and youth and experienced the joy of leading people to Christ.
A brilliant scholar, Shakya took classes at the local university while he continued working at the city church. Now the 29-year-old holds additional degrees in journalism, law, and English.
What is most impressive about Shakya, though, is his heart for the Lord and the Nepali people. He works as the office secretary at a large church in Kathmandu and serves the ministry run by his “foster parents” by equipping others to plant churches. He has also translated Christian evangelistic materials into the Newari language.
As for his family, Shakya makes periodic trips to their farming community to briefly visit his parents and now grown brothers and sisters. Sometimes he brings a basket of fruit or other small gifts. It grieves his heart that his father has disowned him.
There is a glimmer of hope, however. Shakya’s sisters, once reluctant, now welcome his visits. They have even attended his church’s Christmas and Easter programs. Although they have not yet received Christ, his sisters are open to hearing the gospel. In time, they and other family members may commit their lives to the Savior and seek reconciliation. That is Shakya’s daily prayer.
“His is a wonderful story, one of many examples of how the Lord is using our Bible college graduates to be salt and light and to establish the kingdom of God in Nepal,” said the ministry leader.
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New Opportunities in War-Torn Syria

Syrian Christians have asked for care packages to share with their Muslim neighbors.
The Voice of the Martyrs has distributed Action Packs to persecuted Christians in countries like Iraq, Pakistan and Sudan for many years. These care packages, which are filled or sponsored by Christians in the United States, contain clothing, bedding, toiletries and other items of need.

Now our front-line workers in and around Syria want to share these packs with Muslim, Syrian refugees as a demonstration of Christ’s love for them. They believe these packs will help open the door for the gospel.

We are excited to come alongside these faithful Christians in this incredible outreach opportunity, and we invite you to help us equip these front-line workers. Through a network of workers in and around Syria, VOM hopes to distribute 10,000 Outreach Packs. You can join us in one of two ways.
Child in Syria
Fill Your Own Outreach Pack
You can receive Outreach Packs from VOM, fill them yourselves with items from an enclosed list and return the packs to The Voice of the Martyrs for distribution. Your $7 donation for each Outreach Pack covers the cost of the bag, shipping to you and final distribution.
Sponsor an Outreach Pack
You can sponsor Outreach Pack(s) to be filled in the field (you will not receive an Outreach Pack). Your $30 donation for each pack covers the cost of all items in the bag, the bag itself and distribution.

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Bringing the Word of Life to Vietnam

Bringing the Word of Life to Vietnam


May 15, 2014
A ministry in Vietnam has translated the Bible into several tribal languages and plans to make the New Testament available to 20 more ethnic groups during the next six years.
“If you will not leave your faith, stab me now with this knife!”
Mr. K.* could not believe the village leader’s request. His palms sweated, holding the blade the elder had shoved toward him.
“We are friends. I could never commit such a terrible act,” Mr. K. replied.
The elder grew more incensed. “By worshiping the god of the foreigners, you have already brought judgment upon everyone in this village,” he said. “It is better for me to die now than to face the wrath of the people and the spirits.”
Mr. K. did not know what to do. Two months ago he had joyfully committed his life to Jesus Christ. People in his Hmong tribal village assumed he had lost his mind. The greatest insult, however, occurred when Mr. K. and his family removed the altar from their home. He told relatives he would no longer offer animal sacrifices to their ancestors.
Most people went out of their way to avoid him. Few visitors stopped by his home. Now a friend he held in high esteem was practically begging Mr. K. to kill him.
Knowing this incident would not be the last, Mr. K. hastily walked away. A short time later village officials and a contingent of border police showed up at Mr. K.’s house. Unlike the confrontation with his friend, this request demanded an immediate, inescapable response.
“You have stirred up fear and conflict among the people,” they stated. “Either leave your new faith or leave the village.”
The decision was plain to Mr. K. He gathered his family and left the village. They found refuge in a field he owned in the nearby hills. No one would bother them there.
After Mr. K. fled the village, one resident walked into his abandoned house and set up a new altar. The Hmong villagers sacrificed a chicken, convinced they needed to make penance to their ancestors for Mr. K.’s perceived misdeeds.

Reaching Vietnam’s unreached tribes

Sadly, this northern Vietnam village’s response to one of their own coming to faith in Jesus reflects long-held attitudes of suspicion and ambivalence toward Christianity. At least local authorities gave Mr. K. and his family the option of re-settling elsewhere. In other similar instances, the new believer might have been arrested, severely beaten, or even killed because he or she has allegedly transferred allegiance to Christ.
“In Vietnam today, persecution is more of an issue among the reclusive tribes in the mountains than it is in the major cities,” said Stephen Van Valkenburg, the Southeast Asia area director for Christian Aid Mission. “They believe that Christianity is a religion from America, and they have been taught to view anything American as a threat.”
Despite persecution, more Hmong churches are springing up and flourishing in Vietnam’s northern highlands.
While the communist government has succeeded in creating a climate of national distrust toward “foreign religions,” it is ironic, perhaps, that some of the country’s most disenfranchised ethnic groups are the ones experiencing the most rapid move toward Christianity.
The Hmong are one of the largest of the 54 minority people groups scattered throughout Vietnam. Predominantly found in the northern highlands, they barely scrape out a living cultivating “dry” rice and corn on cleared patches of forest. In the most remote villages these hardy mountain people remain resistant to outside influences, celebrating their culture and practicing animist religious beliefs much the same as their ancestors did hundreds of years ago.
There were almost no Christians among the Hmong in the late 1980s, according to Operation World. Western missionaries were kicked out of the country in 1975, leaving indigenous believers in Vietnam with the primary responsibility to spread the good news of Jesus Christ to their people.
Today there are an estimated 400,000 Hmong believers in Vietnam. Those numbers continue to grow as Hmong gospel workers make great strides to form house fellowships in some of the most isolated mountain settlements.
Other minorities are experiencing a similar openness to God’s good news, but there remain 22 ethnic groups who do not have any known followers of Christ.
Christian Aid Mission assists four Vietnamese ministries that are sending workers to share the Father’s love with several under-reached and unreached tribes. Getting to these villages is half the battle, as missionaries travel by motorbike, bicycle, or even on foot to provide spiritual nurturing and plant churches.
Once a small fellowship becomes established, the need arises for Christian literature such as Bibles, discipleship materials, and hymn books.
The process is not as simple as purchasing Bibles and distributing them to these rural areas. First the Bibles must be translated into the local language.
During the next six years, one ministry is planning to translate the New Testament into more than 20 languages. They already have New Testament translations for 14 other groups.
This same organization has also translated the Old Testament into seven languages and plans to do the same for 11 more ethnic groups.
In 2014 they would like to print 1,000 copies of the Old Testament in the Hmong language and another 1,000 copies in the Mnong language. Each copy costs approximately $8.
The ministry leader reported they have missionaries serving among the Tho people (pop. 68,000), Giay people (pop. 40,000), Khang people (pop. 10,000), Bo Y people (1,800 pop.), and the Brau people (pop. 400). They also would like to send pastors to lead house churches attended by Vietnamese groups living in Laos and Cambodia.

Suffering for Christ’s sake

According to the 2014 World Watch List, Vietnam ranks 18th among countries that most persecute Christians. That’s three spots above last year’s ranking.
Government laws passed in 2004-2005 and in 2013 have granted religious groups the right to legally register. The situation is certainly an improvement from a decade ago when there was a major crackdown on house churches. Hundreds of pastors were seized and jailed. Many vanished, never to be heard from again.
The Evangelical Church of Vietnam (north and south divisions) has been formally recognized by the government, as have other, smaller denominations. However, in reality, most churches that apply for registration are denied the status or must adhere to strict regulations. Unregistered fellowships face harassment and forced shutdown by the government.
Persecution is worse for minority groups like the Hmong. Because of strong anti-Western sentiment, isolated tribes view Christianity as a menace to their society. As a result, church buildings are burned and believers are brutally punished or killed.
This group of tribal believers is receiving Christian leadership and discipleship training.
The situation is especially heartbreaking for tribal pastors who have been imprisoned for their faith. Another ministry supported by Christian Aid reports some 250 pastors have been jailed, most of which are from the Ede, Mnong, and Jorai tribes in the Central Highlands of Vietnam.
Without the breadwinner at home, the wives and children of these pastors struggle to survive. The ministry wants to help 60 families by providing them with $300 each per year ($25 per month).
“The imprisoned pastors are all suffering from lack of food and medicines, and are forced to perform hard labor. Several have died in prison. A couple of pastors have been released, but are very weak and sick or are disabled. They continue to live under surveillance even after their release,” the ministry leader shared in a letter to Christian Aid staff.
“We still have difficulty meeting directly with the families of other imprisoned pastors. The local police keep them under direct surveillance. They are unable to leave their area without permission from the police. Accordingly, we distribute support to the families through pastors or church leaders who live nearby. They use different ways to reach the families, as it is very dangerous for both sides,” he said.
The ministry also sends financial aid to families so they can make one yearly trip to see their husband and father in prison. They are permitted a one-hour visit.
Other forms of persecution include prohibiting Christians from access to clean water. In some southern Vietnam communities the government provides wells. Believers cannot use them, however, unless they deny Christ and agree to take part in the worship of their ancestors or other gods.
The situation is different in Vietnam’s towns and cities, where believers have more freedom to live out their faith. Churches must be legally registered, however, and evangelistic events must be approved by the government.
“If Christians are meeting inside the four walls of an approved church, they can have evangelism and discipleship programs and do just about anything they want,” said Van Valkenburg. “That’s the case as long as the government can keep tabs on them. The problem comes when they do something without government authorization.”
Perhaps most notable is the explosive growth of evangelicals—nine-fold according to Operation World—from 1975 to 2010. With Catholic and Protestant denominations combined, there are currently more than 8 million believers in Vietnam.
“There has been a very active, progressive movement of Christians within Vietnam,” Van Valkenburg said. “Over time the country’s leaders have seen that Christians are law-abiding, they are not disruptive, and they are not trying to overthrow the government. They are helpful, productive citizens who are a blessing to their communities.”
In every region of the country, indigenous believers are making Christ known—and people from every tribe are responding.
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